Do
you offer tobacco at a Native American wedding?
Yes!
A
good Traditional Spiritual Leader uses a lot of tobacco
(Kinnick
~ Kinnick)
And
Charges
you nothing for the service.
So
yes, a good traditional spiritual leader is always in need of the herbs
(Kinnick
~ Kinnick).
One
should also remember that a tobacco gift given the correct way is a
Prayer
for a blessing to the person receiving your gift, so you can gift this
herb
anytime that you feel the need to.
Because
a traditional Native American is always giving out this herb.
Receiving
this herb is a blessing to the pocket.
Our
gift given tobacco is
Kinnick~
Kinnick!
Shechaim Walkingfox with Tah, after wedding ceremony
American
Native Wedding Family
Words
from a Native American wedding ceremony?
At a
time when the couple is ready and the wedding party is set around the prayer
alter each in turn may exchange their love and vowels to each other, the female
has the choice as to who will start first.
The
Spiritual leader performing the blessed event, in our tribe, will first speak
to Creator in our tongue, then English for each section of the wedding
ceremony.
The
words chosen by the couple with the acceptance are not as important as the
words by the couple and the tribal sacred words from the Spiritual leader to
the couple and Creator, what the words are of course is a very guarded secret
sacred ceremony.
The
Eastern Woodland American Native Wedding Ceremony, this must be said because
this is only speaking about our people.
There
are still over 500 tribes in Indian Country
That
have permission to be recognized and at least as many that the government is
still trying to eliminate by not recognizing.
There
are about 500 ways they may have to their native weddings; I have been to many
of them.
Our
wedding ceremony, a Traditional Wedding, should be something like many of the
others however; it is not like the Funeral ceremony, because the public may
enjoy the complete ceremony with the permission of the couple.
The
beginning and ending prayer, like most sacred prayers should never be recorded,
this is the leader and the couples request for marriage to Creator and thanks
to Creator after the ceremony.
The
prayer can be filmed just not the words. Only the Spiritual leader and the
couple need the Creators blessing at the beginning, Creator at the end of the
ceremony will bless everyone.
If you
are being groomed for our ceremony please understand, this can take from a few
days to at least a month.
By
studying correctly you will knowing that you will be blessed, remember; only
Creator can bless!
Someone,
in the favor with the couple, should gift a blanket; this person must also
attend at least some of the pre ceremony.
Everyone
gifting at the time of and with the permission of the Spiritual leader and the
couple should attend at least some of the pre ceremony.
Sometimes
the families and/or friends wish to gift a Turtle Rattle, Regalia, Headpiece,
Sage, Sweet grass, and/or Tobacco for the ceremony.
As
with the funeral ceremony, both families can asked to help with the meal after.
Anyone
asked to, can join in the meal and whatever plans after the wedding.
Native
American pre marriage ceremonies
The
pre marriage meetings for our people is not a requirement for marriage, it is a
request from the spiritual leader.
At
this meeting the couple and any member of the soon to be wedding, will learn
everything that will take place on that blessed day, the couple and any person
directly involved will then know what is expected of them by Creator during the
wedding.
The
couple will learn where to stand and why, will learn about the regalia and why
it is used and all of the sacred blessings from Creator through your ancestors.
That
said, please remember, whatever happens during the wedding will not be judged,
after all it is a fun, loving, first day for the rest of your lives.
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