I receiver a comment
on my posting about weddings, a very good comment because it was able to
stimulate my brain, a real challenge lately?
http://mysmudgingblog.blogspot.com/2015/09/native-american-wedding-ceremony.html
http://mysmudgingblog.blogspot.com/2015/09/native-american-wedding-ceremony.html
As you know, most
weddings are set for a day, many lasting into the night.
The new couple heads
out for their "Honeymoon!"
The families and
friends eat, drink, dance and get acquainted or re-acquainted.
This is great and as
it should be.
Then life goes on
and this is also as it should be?
My good friend
reminded me of this and the fact that many tribes, our tribe included
(Mohiigan's), wedding ceremonies could be a year or
more in the planning, or much less, it is up to the couple and the Spiritual
Leader.
There could be many
supper gatherings (a time to socialize and make the plans),before and/or after.
However, the actual
ceremony is with Creator, spiritual leader and the couple,
notice the no
capital letters with the exception of Creator, with friends and
family gathered around.
This usually
however, again it is up to the couple, starts at sunrise or sunset outside
weather permitting.
Because it is, as
with all ceremonies, a Sacred Spiritual Prey for unity between the couple and
their Creator.
The only gifting is
on the day or night of the ceremony and is
"A Blessing
from Creator to the couple and all present at the ceremony."
Gifting including
Kinnick-Kinnick, takes place in the supper gathering or gatherings.
The honeymoon is up
to the couple.
However, their first
anniversary and the next (12 Months), 13 altogether are also of a ceremony
anniversary.
Sort of a
re-marriage of their love and commitment to Creator and one another?
Thank-you for your
comment my friend! <3
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